Don’t Wait, Negotiate: A Simple Winning Strategy for Non-Negotiators

This is a guest post from Scott and Marie at Rainy Day Finances

Scott says…

Wow, what a time to get a good deal! Prices are dropping and bargains are everywhere. However, I’m finding that many of us are still not using basic negotiating skills to drive prices down even more.

So if you aren’t a negotiator here is a quick and easy training lesson that will get you started. All you need to know are the five basic steps:

  • Preparing
  • Planning
  • Pretending
  • Patience
  • Purchasing
Preparing to negotiate

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Super-Charged Living: Having A Giving Spirit

This is a guest post by Mary from Simply Forties.

3f36f237 cfcf 49b5 b2d8 6e34b652ae4a Super Charged Living: Having A Giving Spirit When I was trying to come up with a subject for my guest post for Jeff I started thinking about the title of his site, “My Super-Charged Life”. I don’t know what Jeff means by that in relation to his life but I started thinking about what it means in mine.

The best part of my super-charged life is what I can share with others.

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Polishing The Stone Of Personal Finance

This is a guest post by Free From Broke.

“This is too difficult! How will I ever be any good?!?”

92ba8d0e 0de1 499d 84d6 d5fe560eda3a Polishing The Stone Of Personal FinanceI’ve been studying the Japanese martial art Aikido for a little over ten years. One of the concepts my Sensei taught me was Polishing the Stone.

When a student starts learning an art they are far from smooth and flowing and struggle to do basic moves. Usually they are a bumbling, clumsy mess.

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Living in Fear – Too Much Baggage?

This is a guest post by The Happy Rock.

aaf1048c 1c79 40b7 be86 1472d10646e4 Living in Fear – Too Much Baggage?Fear is good. It keeps us safe, keeps us from harm, and keeps us from making terrible mistakes. Fear is healthy, right?

Teach a young child to be afraid to touch the stove because he will get burned and he doesn’t go near the stove. He is safe.

As he grows older he realizes that the stove isn’t something that needs to be feared, but respected.

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How One Man Learned to Love Yoga

1600601f fd6c 4e2e 94e7 48388f1ec113 How One Man Learned to Love YogaThis is a guest post by Andrew Blanco from babled.

When she first asked me to come to a yoga class with her, I couldn’t help but tell my girl she was nuts. After all, I’m a guy, and guys don’t do yoga. Girls do yoga.

Upon hearing this lame excuse, my girl promptly put me in my place with a simple bet: “If yoga is only meant for girls then I dare you to attend a full two hour class without breaking a sweat.”

Let the Games Begin

My first mistake was to assume that yoga was nothing more than glorified stretching.

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Why SMART Goals Don’t Work and How to Fix Them

This is a guest post by Maria Gajewski from Never the Same River Twice

ac69c1f8 7b5f 4159 95b0 f20c98d20a87 Why SMART Goals Dont Work and How to Fix Them“Where will you be in 5 years?” I’ve always hated this interview question. The truth is none of us has a clue where we’ll be in 5 years. We may be in Phoenix, Antarctica, or Bali. We may be healthy or sick, single or married. Yet, so many classic self improvement books instruct us to create 5 year plans and to set SMART goals to reach them.

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