This is a guest post from Oscar Del Ben from FreestyleMind.com.
All of us have dreams, all of us have a list of things we want to do. Some of them are easy, some of them require something else to be done before. For example if you want to travel the world for one full year, you first need to have enough money for it or you need to have a location independent job.
Eventually, your ability to accomplish the list of your dreams is directly related to your ability to change and adapt to new situations. Being flexible and open to new opportunities is the basis of self development, and the starting point to achieve your dreams.
How to Form Powerful New Habits
Everything we do is the result of our habits, and habits are exactly what determine our flexibility and openness, so it makes sense to spend some time developing good habits.
The time you wake up in the morning, the specific hand you’ll use to brush your teeth in the morning, and how you approach a conversation with a new person, are all results of habits. You can change all of them if you want, although it’s not always necessary. But how can you change an habit if you really want to?
One of the most effective ways to change a habit, is through a 30 days habit challenge. In this challenge, you are committing yourself to reinforce and work in your habit each day. For example if you want to experience how it would feel to be a vegetarian, you can do a 30 day habit change where you’ll eat no meat for 30 days. After the 30 days have passed, you are free to return to your previous habit if you desire.
The reason I’m suggesting 30 days is because this way you are not committing yourself for the rest of your life. Indeed you can revert to your original habit on the 31st day if you want. Still, 30 days is usually enough time to go through the initial difficult phase to create the new habit.
The 5 Habits That Will Change Your Life
Below are five simple but effective habits you can implement. Each of those habits has the potential to dramatically change your life.
1. Wake up early.
Waking up early is a tremendous time management tip. When you wake up early in the morning, you have more time to do the stuff that you are always putting off in the evening. In the morning you are fresh and you can work without distractions, usually accomplishing 2-3 times more work than in the evening. Of course if you want to wake up early, you have to go to bed earlier in the evening. 7 to 8 hours per night is usually enough. How early you wake up is up to you. My advice is to start slowly and turn back your alarm clock 15 minutes every week until you reach your goal.
2. Eat healthy, and exercise.
Like it or not, for your brain to function properly, you have to regularly exercise and eat healthy. By eating healthy you’ll gain a lot of clearness and energy, and by exercising every day you’ll improve your ability to perform and concentrate on difficult tasks. 30 minutes of exercise every day is the standard amount of time recommended for most people.
3. Read a book a week.
Your education is essential if you want to move further in your career. Reading a book a week in your field will make you an expert within one year (assuming you practice what you learn). In order to read one book a week, I recommend starting with 45 minutes a day. With time, you’ll learn to read faster and in less time.
4. Work one hour every day.
I’m not referring to your day job, I’m talking about working on your goals. For example if you want to build a website, spend one hour each day working exclusively on it, preferably in the morning. You should spend this time doing only high value activities. One hour per day means that within one year you’ll have worked the equivalent of more than two months of 40 hour weeks.
5. Embrace simplicity.
There’s no need to live in a rush. If you identify those few things and tasks that provide the highest results and enjoyment in your life, you can work more on them and discard all the remaining stuff. The Pareto rule states that 20% of your efforts produce 80% of your results. This is true in all areas of life, so always apply the Pareto rule when possible.
The Key Is to Begin a New Habit Today
You don’t have to implement all of these habits at once. One per month is enough, otherwise you would feel too overwhelmed. If one day you are unable to work on your habit, don’t give up. Start again the following day with more energy and motivation. After all, every successful person fails multiple times before succeeding. The secret is to keep going.
Oscar Del Ben writes about personal development and productivity. You can follow his blog at FreestyleMind.com and subscribe to the RSS Feed.
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Nice article.
The 5 habits you listed are all definitely good ones to adopt, but for someone who currently does 1 or 2 (or none) of them, trying to adopt all 5 at once could be overwhelming. However, by using the 30 day challenge model you propose (which I love, and thus focus my own blog on), one can adopt each of those habits in 30 days before layering the next one on in the next 30 days. In 5 months, it is possible to go from zero to developing all 5 habits.
Dave – I certainly favor the baby step approach to self-improvement. I think a lot of people bite off more than they can chew initially. This only leads to disappointment and discouragement. It is better to set smaller goals along the way to your ultimate dream. Thanks for reinforcing this point!
Hey Dave, yes definitely trying to implement all at once is a recipe for failure. Thanks for your feedback and comment.
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Awesome post, Oscar! I particularly like your suggestion of spending just one hour each day on one of your non-work goals. I had never put it into perspective that one year of that effort is equivalent to two months of working full-time. Great stuff!
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It is Dustin, and without considering that it’s an hour value hour, that is, if you adopt the 20/80 rule it’s worth more than 2 months.
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This is a Fabulous Five. I just started getting up earlier a month ago and it helps me concentrate for sure. 30 days is a good start for something new. It’s long enough for someone to develop confidence in their ability.
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Hey Ken, good that you have stated that habit. I usually work during the morning and I can get a lot done that I couldn’t otherwise.
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Good list.. One thing I would like to add to this is…
Quiet your mind and then visualize your success every day
Professional athletes and top business leaders know the power of visualization. Self help teachers through history have extolled the virtues of learning to quiet your mind with meditation.
Once you get used to it.. its something that you can’t do without.. something that keeps you sane
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That’s an excellent tip Persha, thanks for adding to the discussion
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Hi Oscar,
These are excellent habits indeed! It might take months or even years to be able to reach them all, but we should all strive for that.
Thanks for the post.
Thanks for providing excellent and achievable timelines. It’s always easier to accomplish a goal when it’s an hour, 30 minutes, etc. I have heard it said that if you do something for 21 days at least, you have taken ownership of it. For me, that usually works. I accept the challenge of adopting the 5 habits that will change my life. Keep you posted.
I like the idea of developing new good habits. Any attempt to Change habits already established is really tough. I especially like the “Spend an hour a day working” on your goals.
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Hi, I love your ideas, being a working women & mother of two children, 7 yrs & 8 month old. I feel it practically difficult. Hope you can suggest me some tips.