This is a guest post by Dustin Riechmann from the Engaged Marriage.
Are you a creative person?
Do you feel like you could create something useful, but you just don’t have the time, the interest or the motivation?
Each of us has unique talents to offer, even the power to create something truly extraordinary.
The problem is that it is so easy to get trapped in our daily routines. As they say, the worst enemy of greatness is “good enough.”
I know first-hand how easy it is to be apathetic about doing something special with your God-given talents. The rigors and routines of everyday life have a way of settling us into a groove. Same day, same story. I have great news! It doesn’t have to be this way.
7 Tips to Help You Discover Your Creative Inspiration
You can use the seven tips below to snap out of your funk and discover your own creative inspiration.
1. Do an Everyday Activity Slightly Differently
We all fall into the routines of daily life: your commute, the same old workout, getting ready for work each morning. To call these mundane activities would be a gross understatement.
In his book No More Mondays, author Dan Miller describes a discovery a college professor made one day when getting dressed. While buttoning up his shirt the same way he did everyday, he discovered that his wife had sewed up some of the buttonholes.
As his fingers fumbled to follow the familiar path, his mind was flooded with inspiration. With this in mind, he experimented with his students and discovered that changes in our habitual behaviors have a profound effect on our brain.
As it turns out, when we “sew up our buttonholes” by changing (even slightly) a daily routine, our brain is forced to form new neurological pathways.
The result is a new sense of creativity and a new perspective on old ideas.
So, change things up in your life. Once per week, take a different route to work. Read a book you would usually avoid. Talk to a child or an elderly person and really listen to their perspective.
2. Sit For Ideas
I recently wrote a post on Engaged Marriage that described how I use my time bowhunting to open my mind and deepen my thoughts.
Many of the greatest thinkers, inventors and entrepreneurs in modern history scheduled time to simply “sit for ideas.”
Andrew Carnegie would spend hours sitting alone in a room, undistracted, to solve problems.
Thomas Edison would go down to the water’s edge each morning, throw out his line – with no bait – and then watch the bobber for an hour until his thinking was ready for the day.
What could be your version of sitting for ideas? Long walks, solo rounds of golf, knitting, fishing?
There are many ways to get away from all of life’s constant distractions and allow your mind to solve problems, create, and simply replenish itself.
3. Talk it Out
Many of us spend most of our workdays talking and interacting with others, sometimes to the point that we’d rather just spend our time at home alone.
This is especially true for guys as we just don’t express ourselves verbally to the same extent as our female acquaintances.
However, spending some quality time just talking without reservation to your spouse, friend or even your child can really help you sort out your thoughts.
While it may seem like internalizing our thoughts would breed creativity, sometimes we just need to talk it out.
4. Go on Vacation
Sometimes, we legitimately need a jump-start to get our creative engines running. This was the case for me just a few months back.
I had settled into familiar and comfortable routines in pretty much every aspect of my life. In the back of mind, I knew I wanted to do something different, but I felt like I never had the time or motivation to pin down my thoughts.
Fortunately, my wife and I decided to take a trip to Cancun with friends. The kids were left with their grandparents, the days were stress-free, the drinks and food were free-flowing, and I spent a lot of time reading cool books (including No More Mondays) and just floating in the ocean.
In my new state of total relaxation, my creativity finally started to flow! A hundred ideas came to mind, and I jotted down as many as I could on the hotel stationery.
My brain felt alive, and I was ready to tackle something completely new and inspired. For me, the result was a new web site aimed at helping others take their normal marriages to the next level.
Engaged Marriage was born as a result of our vacation away from our everyday routines.
What kind of vacation excites you and conjures up visions of time spent relaxing, imagining and creating? Invest the time and money to get you there. The payoff in your life could be huge.
5. Share a Spiritual Experience with a Loved One
My wife and I were recently invited to attend a weekend marriage retreat. It was a very positive and surprisingly spiritual experience for us. And it also left us both bursting with creative energy and expressing ideas that we had left buried in the backs of our minds for many years.
Other spiritual experiences may not be so positive but can be just as stimulating to our thoughts.
I recently experienced the death of a close family member. There are few things like long nights spent in a hospital in close quarters with your family to open your mind and clarify your priorities and aspirations.
6. Relive a Dorm Night
I firmly believe that the majority of my political, religious and “life” beliefs were formed during late-night discussions in the student dormitory my Freshman year of college.
The free exchange of opinions and ideas (along with plenty of mind “lubricating” drinks) led to many deep conversations. The feeling of creative power in the room was almost palpable some nights.
While we cannot return to our college dorm (without alerting the campus police, at least), we can recreate the spirit of open dialogue.
Maybe your “grown-up” version could be formed around a poker night, a book club or a camp-out. Let the (drinks and) conversations flow and enjoy your very own “mastermind” group discussion.
7. Feed your Mind Every Day
I am a big believer in the practice of lifetime learning. As Charles Jones said, “You will be the same person in five years as you are today except for the books you read and the people you meet.”
So, keep your creative spirit alive by nourishing your mind every day. Read a good book, listen to a podcast, associate with diverse people, try new things. And keep reading fantastic blogs like My Super-Charged Life!
Use These Awesome Tips to Find Your Creative Inspiration!
So, there you have it. If you take one or more of the ideas above and put it into practice, I am confident that you will unleash the creative spirit that is stuck in the back of your mind each day.
You will not only have great new ideas, but you will become more aware of your ideas and develop the means to put them into practice.
One final note: be sure to document your ideas as they come to mind! As you put these strategies into practice, you can expect a flood of new inspiration and new thoughts.
You should keep a notebook or voice recorder on-hand at all times to capture your brainstorms. I have found that some “prime times” for idea generation are immediately upon waking from sleep, on long drives and in the shower…especially when you “sew up your buttonholes” and expand your mind during these everyday activities.
Dustin Riechmann created the Engaged Marriage site with the mission of helping to make normal marriages awesome. Using the creative inspiration found through time spent with his wife, he seeks to provide the information and resources to educate, entertain and inspire married and engaged couples to take their relationships to the next level and live their lives together to the fullest. Dustin is thrilled to spend each day with his wife and two young children.
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GREAT ideas! Thanks!!
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Great Post Dustin!
I like the thought of Sitting for Ideas – I have noticed that when I spend time near a body of water – pond, stream…the shower…ideas flow!!
Ps – First Time reader here at mysuperchargedlife.com and first time commenter! I’m checkin out the site!
Thanks! – Stu
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Positively Present, thanks for the compliment! I just checked out your site…very cool stuff there.
.-= Dustin | Engaged Marriage´s last blog ..Finding Your Creative Inspiration: My Guest Post at My Super-Charged Life! =-.
Hey Stu! I’m so glad you found your way here to My Super-Charged Life (presumably from my site). As you will see, Jeff has a fantastic site here full of great resources for helping us live life to the fullest, and I find great motivation each time I visit.
I am honored to have my post featured on such a cool blog!
Hey Dustin. Thanks for this post. You provided many great tips on creating inspiration for grown ups.
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Dustin,
Your article was both well-written and truthful. As I complete my psychology degree, I have been amazed to learn about the very process of gathering and storing information in terms of our cognitive ability. When you note varying your routine, I feel it important that a person first realizes that their daily activities are committed to following a routine; many folks don’t make this conection in the first place.
A simple method I have found to alter daily routines inolves getting from point A to point B; try new routes. Duck into neighborhoods, use different highway exits, stop at a different grocery store on the way home. I have found that by leaving just thirty minutes early for a destination gives me plenty of “goof-off” driving time; a perfect opportunity to think. Creativity needs not wait until an epiphany-ripe tropical vacation; it waits for you in the funky little neighborhoods you usually speed past in your daily hum-bug.
Also, I find it necessary to turn off the television and the computer. The reality they present is full and without the need of your input. Turn them off as much as is possible and go talk to different people. Ideas, language and wisdom are communal in every concievable sense. Go learn about your world out in the world; how novel!?!
Thanks, Tristan! I find that regular inspiration adds a lot to my quality of life.
.-= Dustin | Engaged Marriage´s last blog ..Finding Your Creative Inspiration: My Guest Post at My Super-Charged Life! =-.
Scott,
Thank you so much for your insightful comment. I totally agree that creative inspiration is often right under our noses in our everyday lives. We just need to break from our daily routines, even just slightly, to open our minds to so many new ideas. Your comment was very edifying, and I really appreciate you sharing your psychological background to confirm my own observations!
.-= Dustin | Engaged Marriage´s last blog ..Finding Your Creative Inspiration: My Guest Post at My Super-Charged Life! =-.
This is a fantastic article! The idea of reliving a dorm night really appeals to me, as I remember all of the great things that I learned during those times at college. I’ll have to get some buddies together for a long night of hanging out, drinking a few and talking about big ideas.
Thanks again for a great and motivating post!
Thanks, Jim! Since writing this post, the dorm night idea is one that I have really wanted to try out. I had a great conversation over beers last night with a friend who is going through some troubles in his marriage, and we both got so much motivation and affirmation from our few hours together.
We both came away talking about how we need to make more time for free-flowing conversation. I think the creative powers would be multiplied with several friends and without the underlying (negative) pretext that had brought us together.
Cheers!
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I am a follower of Napoleon Hill and his Think and Grow Rich ‘bible’. Read the book seven times going eighth in 6 years; been having hectic work schedules in past two hence the lethargy. Great book it is! The book taught me about the concept of Sitting For Ideas and I must state that I have made a decision to earn a living just by doing that. I have a list of more than 10 ideas in my journal accumulated over a period of 3 years. In that list are three original inventions. My only weakness, which I am working on with the help of a Prof from a local varsity in SA, is weak follow through and implementation. In his book Napoleon says once an idea has been received, one must get busy with it. A continued failure to ACT leads the Universe to reduce the flow of ideas to a person and that is very true. My sessions don’t generate as much as when I first started. However, ever since of making a decision of becoming a practicing Sitting For Ideas practitioner; there has been some improvement because I am now forced to have my sessions everyday min of 5 mins per session. I could say a lot especially around the fact that if I could get my implementation to more than 40%; I could easily travel the world unsponsored and enjoy all the beauty the Universe has for us. By the way – calling you from Johannesburg in South Africa.