Comments on: Are You A Control Freak In Your Relationships? http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/ Good Habits for a Great Life! Thu, 09 Feb 2012 04:57:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: TYLER http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-14527 TYLER Thu, 15 Dec 2011 11:10:33 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-14527 There is apparently a great deal for me to learn outdoors of my publications. Many thanks for your amazing read. There is apparently a great deal for me to learn outdoors of my publications. Many thanks for your amazing read.

]]> By: Karen http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-13150 Karen Tue, 08 Nov 2011 19:21:49 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-13150 Geoff, Get some help, buddy. Your "wife" is no longer yours to control--maybe with a ton of counseling, you'll understand that she never was your property. Get help; move on. Geoff,

Get some help, buddy. Your “wife” is no longer yours to control–maybe with a ton of counseling, you’ll understand that she never was your property. Get help; move on.

]]> By: geoff http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-13147 geoff Tue, 08 Nov 2011 16:55:31 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-13147 My wife has left me and gone to a man who wants to do everything for her , but he has stopped her talking or seeing her x husband . He will not let her talk her husbands child to meet him , and everything she says to her husband she has to tell him . is this bf a control freak ) if so how can he be stopped , and how can i get my wife away from him ? My wife has left me and gone to a man who wants to do everything for her , but he has stopped her talking or seeing her x husband . He will not let her talk her husbands child to meet him , and everything she says to her husband she has to tell him . is this bf a control freak ) if so how can he be stopped , and how can i get my wife away from him ?

]]> By: Karen http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-12472 Karen Sat, 16 Jul 2011 20:23:30 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-12472 I can't believe no on called "Andre" out on his bizarre, neanderthal post. Was the guy kidding in some "guy" way that few women would understand? Or did the other readers merely bypass commenting on this loon, since he's obviously beyond redemption? I can’t believe no on called “Andre” out on his bizarre, neanderthal post. Was the guy kidding in some “guy” way that few women would understand? Or did the other readers merely bypass commenting on this loon, since he’s obviously beyond redemption?

]]> By: paul http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-12253 paul Mon, 30 May 2011 21:37:11 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-12253 I am worried that I may have been a control freak all my life, I now have high blood pressure and mild heart problems. I always thought I was very laid back and a lot of people who don't know me think I am. But people who get to Know me avoid me I only talk about me so I end up not socialising at all. I have had a rocky 30 years with my wife she now does exactly what she wants to and I struggle to accept it and feel she goes out her way to do what I hate and to make sure she does not do what I like. I do work alone because I worry that other people might not do things right. This has come to my attention because I didn't get my way over a new ride on mower (how stupid) I am a assistant warden and are old mower is a wreck which I have nurtured back to life, someone traded it in for a slightly newer one and I felt we should keep the old one. they were helping me, above other things they could do, because I have done so much for them recently and all I did is complained about loosing the old worn-out mower. I feel such a prat because I made such an issue I think just because I didn't get my way. I have honestly spent my whole 48yrs thinking I way laid back. sorry so long post Paul I am worried that I may have been a control freak all my life, I now have high blood pressure and mild heart problems. I always thought I was very laid back and a lot of people who don’t know me think I am. But people who get to Know me avoid me I only talk about me so I end up not socialising at all. I have had a rocky 30 years with my wife she now does exactly what she wants to and I struggle to accept it and feel she goes out her way to do what I hate and to make sure she does not do what I like. I do work alone because I worry that other people might not do things right. This has come to my attention because I didn’t get my way over a new ride on mower (how stupid) I am a assistant warden and are old mower is a wreck which I have nurtured back to life, someone traded it in for a slightly newer one and I felt we should keep the old one. they were helping me, above other things they could do, because I have done so much for them recently and all I did is complained about loosing the old worn-out mower. I feel such a prat because I made such an issue I think just because I didn’t get my way.
I have honestly spent my whole 48yrs thinking I way laid back.
sorry so long post
Paul

]]> By: Femita http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-10205 Femita Sat, 26 Feb 2011 16:49:03 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-10205 I guess I'm a control freak. Hey, acceptance is the first step :) Whether it's at work or at home, I always feel the urge to do everything myself. It's not like I think I'm better than anyone else, but I like to be in control of the whole process, also because I feel that's the only way I will learn from my experiences. I've always been kind of a 'trial and error' person. I guess I’m a control freak. Hey, acceptance is the first step :) Whether it’s at work or at home, I always feel the urge to do everything myself. It’s not like I think I’m better than anyone else, but I like to be in control of the whole process, also because I feel that’s the only way I will learn from my experiences. I’ve always been kind of a ‘trial and error’ person.
Femita´s last [type] ..How To Become Less Of A Control Freak At Work

]]> By: Aaron http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-6992 Aaron Tue, 12 Jan 2010 15:15:11 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-6992 Interesting article, I found another one that goes into the narcissistic tendencies as well, where we can talk incessantly of ourselves and be convinced that everyone is fascinated. When others turn the conversation to themselves we show disinterest and manipulate it back to ourselves. I am definetely a control freak and show a lot of the symptoms, it is time for me to rid myself of this and have healthy relationships I know I have many good qualities and have spent years managing other illnesses that I have, now it is time to finalise it and chill some more. Interesting article, I found another one that goes into the narcissistic tendencies as well, where we can talk incessantly of ourselves and be convinced that everyone is fascinated. When others turn the conversation to themselves we show disinterest and manipulate it back to ourselves. I am definetely a control freak and show a lot of the symptoms, it is time for me to rid myself of this and have healthy relationships I know I have many good qualities and have spent years managing other illnesses that I have, now it is time to finalise it and chill some more.

]]> By: Andre http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2224 Andre Fri, 10 Oct 2008 15:15:18 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-2224 When you're the man of the house, why the hell shouldnt you be in control? After all isnt it your paycheck, your sweat and blood that makes the family function? If I make a rule thats in the familys best interest, shouldnt it be followed? Just because I command respect doesnt mean Im a control "freak", someone has to be in control. This was obviuosly written by a woman who was controlled, not the man in charge. A control freak has to have EVERYTHING his way, im just Large and in Charge. When you’re the man of the house, why the hell shouldnt you be in control? After all isnt it your paycheck, your sweat and blood that makes the family function? If I make a rule thats in the familys best interest, shouldnt it be followed? Just because I command respect doesnt mean Im a control “freak”, someone has to be in control. This was obviuosly written by a woman who was controlled, not the man in charge.

A control freak has to have EVERYTHING his way, im just Large and in Charge.

]]> By: Mani Goel http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2128 Mani Goel Mon, 22 Sep 2008 10:58:22 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-2128 Excellent post. I love it <abbr><em>Read Mani Goel's lastest article - <a href="http://powerofselfesteem.com/2008/09/self-esteem-activites/" rel="nofollow">Self Esteem Activites</a></em></abbr> Excellent post. I love it

Read Mani Goel’s lastest article – Self Esteem Activites

]]> By: Ladybeams http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2093 Ladybeams Tue, 16 Sep 2008 06:00:27 +0000 http://mysuperchargedlife.com/blog/are-you-a-control-freak-in-your-relationships/#comment-2093 I didn't think I was a control freak, but I may be. This was great reading, and I love how you used "we" as if you are one too, even if you're not. When it comes to lack of delegation, I have become like that because I live with a passive aggressive. Anyone who's been in that type of relationship for any length of time knows they cannot delegate to them and keep your sanity. LOL. I do have a tendancy to give advice, because I'm old, "been there, done that". If they choose not to take my advice that's up to them. I do understand people have to make their own experiences and mistakes. Fear- Yeah, but only because they know as well as I do I asked "nicely" 50 times before I went psycho. Then they want to fix it, but then it's too late. You should have fixed it after I asked the 49th time. LOL. I didn’t think I was a control freak, but I may be. This was great reading, and I love how you used “we” as if you are one too, even if you’re not.

When it comes to lack of delegation, I have become like that because I live with a passive aggressive. Anyone who’s been in that type of relationship for any length of time knows they cannot delegate to them and keep your sanity. LOL.

I do have a tendancy to give advice, because I’m old, “been there, done that”. If they choose not to take my advice that’s up to them. I do understand people have to make their own experiences and mistakes.

Fear- Yeah, but only because they know as well as I do I asked “nicely” 50 times before I went psycho. Then they want to fix it, but then it’s too late. You should have fixed it after I asked the 49th time. LOL.

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