Comfort Is the Enemy of Creativity

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comfort recliner Comfort Is the Enemy of CreativityDo you want to be more creative?

Stop clinging to comfort.  Comfort is the enemy of creativity.

You are comfortable where it is safe and predictable.  When you are curled up in your recliner watching your favorite sitcom.

Creativity resides out on the edge where things are a little dicey.

If you want to be more creative, then you’ve got to force yourself — usually kicking and screaming — to move outside that place where things are easy, sheltered and certain.  Beyond comfort is where originality, invention and new discoveries are found.  It is where life is rich and fulfilling.  It is that place where you live up to your full potential.

Stop Flinching and Start Creating

You are programmed to avoid pain.  You have been taught to stay where it is safe.  Your mother didn’t want you to take too many risks because you might get hurt.  School certainly didn’t teach you to be creative.  It taught you to stay in the lines and conform.

You are creative.  It is there somewhere inside you, but it is likely buried — at least to a degree.

Even if you do creative work, you probably aren’t producing all you are capable of.

How do I know this?  Because I know you flinch.

“The flinch is the moment when every doubt you’ve ever had comes back and hits you, hard.  It’s when your whole body feels tense.  It’s an instinct that tells you to run.  It’s a moment of tension that happens in the body and the brain, and it stops everything cold.”

~ Julien Smith, The Flinch Comfort Is the Enemy of Creativity

You pull back and throttle your creativity so you can avoid the risk of being criticized, questioned and thrust into the spotlight.

You flinch.

You have that moment where you wonder, “What if they don’t like this?”

It is then that you reel things in a little.  You retreat to where it is more comfortable.  Where you aren’t pushing the envelope quite so much.  You step back from the edge.

After years of remaining comfortable, you are too afraid to get anywhere near creativity.  You won’t sing in front of others.  You won’t show your work to anyone .  You hide behind mediocre efforts.  You keep your mouth shut.  You keep your ideas to yourself.  You fail to deliver.

You may even say, “I am not creative.”  That’s a dangerous place to go.  It is a cop out.  It is the ultimate flinch.

“No matter whether you are leading a team, developing marketing strategies, running a small business, or writing copy, when you are compensated for creating value with your mind, the pressure to perform is palpable.”

~ Todd Henry, The Accidental Creative Comfort Is the Enemy of Creativity

I get it.  There is a lot of pressure.

There is fear.  Fear of failure.  Fear of not living up to expectations.  Fear of rejection.  Fear of criticism.  Fear of being ostracised.  Fear your best isn’t good enough.

Fear that you suck.

And if it becomes known (to you and others) that you suck, where does that leave you?

On the other hand, there is comfort.

Is it any wonder that we choose the way we do?  That’s right.  More often than not, you are choosing to be comfortable rather than sticking your neck out to be creative.

This is why we live lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in us.  We are in bed with the enemy.

How to Defeat the Enemy and Live

“Behind every moment of courage was a man or woman who faced a difficult internal struggle.  When they face it, it becomes an amazing story.  They become legends.”

~ Julien Smith, The Flinch

If you want to live a really joyful, fulfilling and amazing story, then you’ve got to stop clinging to comfort and start creating.  You’ve got to win this internal struggle.

Children are naturally creative.  Why?  Because they aren’t afraid to take risks.  They aren’t yet slaves to comfort.  They are already legends in their minds.

You were a child once.  You know how to do it.  You have brilliance inside you.  You just need to rediscover it and take a chance.  I won’t mislead you, it isn’t easy.  It may even hurt a bit, but if you press through it to the other side.  You will be astonished at the life you find.

You may not know where to start.  I’d encourage you to read the two books I quoted in this article.  I read them both recently and I loved them.  They will help you to break free from the clutches of comfort.

The Flinch by Julien Smith is totally free on Amazon, so you have no excuse for not reading it, unless you just want to continue to wallow in the comfort of not knowing.  You can click the link above to download your copy.  You won’t regret it.

You can find out a lot more about The Accidental Creative on Todd Henry’s site that goes by the same name.  He offers a ton of great information in the free articles alone.  What I love best about Todd’s book is that he recognizes that it isn’t just artists that need to express creativity.  He focuses on being creative in business and everyday life.  You’ll get a lot out of his stuff.

Finally, I dare say that I might have a few other articles that can help inspire you to greatness.  Here are some that are specifically targeted to arouse your creativity:

It is time to put comfort aside, step out to the edge and let the world know why you are here.  Go live your amazing story and become the legend you were meant to be!

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  1. Hi Jeff,

    Thank you. This is one of the most enjoyable posts I’ve read on your site. I’m definitely going to check out the Flinch and Todd Henry.

    • Jeff says:

      Jonny, I’m glad you liked it. The Flinch is free for the Kindle. Of course, you can download a free Kindle reader for just about any kind of device. Personally, I read it on my iPad. I’d highly recommend it. It was a quick read and really challenges you to push yourself.

  2. Johnathan says:

    Excellent post! Thanks for sharing it. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it. It seems lately every single one of your posts exceeds the other.

    What’s your secret?

    • Jeff says:

      Johnathan, thanks for the compliment! I’m glad you like what I’ve been publishing and find it useful. There is no secret. I just enjoy what I do and that translates in my writing. Have a great day!

  3. Hi Jeff,
    Being ‘comfortable’ and using ‘excuses’ will often leave you standing still…let them go & move forward. Thankyou for this…
    be good to yourself
    David
    David Stevens´s last [type] ..Living Life Today – 4 Simple ways to best use your Power…in Everyday Life

    • Jeff says:

      David, we all seem to have a natural tendency to stay in our comfort zone. It takes real intention and effort to move forward in life in a creative and beneficial way. I know I can come up with a million reasons to remain comfortable instead of challenging myself. Of course, you are either moving forward or falling behind – life does not stand still.

  4. It is hard for me to leave my comfort zone. There has always been a battle (usually at least three rounds) with comfort for me. For example, I started a line of shirts, but it is not easy for me to sell them. I do not ask enough people, and instead I stay in my comfort zone. I fear that if they do not like my shirts then it will give me a bad reputation. I fear making myself look stupid and getting laughed at, but I should not take it serious, right?
    Lately, I have been doing better and asking a few people here and there, but I want to ask more people. When I approach someone and let them know I am selling shirts, there is always this uncomfortable look (the annoying person always trying to sell something look) that I get.
    I know the look because there have been many times that I have had the same one. The only way that I can get my product out is by telling people and I know this, but yet, I continue to waste time.

    Maybe I need to have more patience?

    Anyways, thanks for the awesome article!

    God bless,
    William Veasley
    William Veasley´s last [type] ..BoyVeasley: Changing Frowns Into Smiles – http://t.co/wCwHiHil

    • Jeff says:

      William, you have identified a very common way that we get trapped by comfort. You not only have to be willing to push yourself out of your comfort zone, but you have to push others out of theirs by approaching them and telling them about your shirts. You have to believe that once people know about your awesome, creative product, they will be thankful you told them. Steel yourself and push through your fear. You will be glad that you did. Slowly, but surely, it will get easier.

  5. Taka Sande says:

    Challenging article Jeff

    It is easier to remain than to change. It looks safer to remain than to change because we know the outcome when we remain but we are not 100% sure of the outcome when we change.

    It’s like we are afraid of the unknown. It is scary to find ourselves where we do not want to be; right where we were years ago, still not yet moved an inch!

    Regards
    Taka

    • Jeff says:

      Taka, it is scary to take risks. However, it is also scary to stand still and let the world (and your life) pass you by.

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