Developing Good Habits For Moving Forward In Life
Do you have the good habits to move forward in life?
There is no standing still. You are either moving forward in your life or your are falling behind. Time respects no person. It marches on despite our objections.
Developing good habits is essential to success. Habits are your auto-pilot. Yours are either moving you toward your goals or keeping you from them.
This is why it is so important that we consciously examine ourselves to ensure we are developing good habits that serve us well.
Four quick litmus tests to evaluate your habits
We all form habits. The question is are yours good or bad? Are you getting what you want out of life? If not, then maybe it is time to re-evaluate.
Take a few moments to ask yourself the four questions below to see if your habits are the ones you need to achieve success:
1. Is your quality of life what you want it to be?
Are you in the habit of focusing on what is truly most important? Many of us are not. We waste too much of our time and energy in areas that have no value like watching television and then wonder why our lives seem empty and meaningless.
Concentrate on really living your life instead of just existing. Dig deep and find those things that fill you up instead of draining you. Make these the activities that fill your day. It might feel a little odd at first, but eventually new, better habits will form.
2. What do you say about your life?
Listen to yourself. What do you hear yourself saying? Are there negative patterns in the way you describe your life to others? If so, then you probably have some work to do. Usually, this toxic talk becomes self-fulfilling prophecy.
Learn to expect the best from life. Talk expectantly and positively about the future. Have hope that better things are right around the corner for you. Be enthusiastic! Cheer yourself and others on toward the prize! Make this kind of positive attitude a habit and you’ll be amazed at the results!
3. Are you honest with yourself about where you are at?
Do you seek the truth about your position in life or are you in denial and living a lie? It seems that many of us can’t handle the truth. We create a false lifestyle, live well above our means and boast to others about our success. However, it is all a house of cards. It could come tumbling down any minute.
Seek the truth and face up to it! Vow to start living honestly with yourself today. Draw a line in the sand and decide to start developing good habits to really build the life you desire instead of just pretending. You’ll be happy you did!
4. Would your parents be proud of how you are living?
Look at your life through the eyes of your parents. If they knew everything about the way you are living, would they be proud? If not, then you likely have some work to do on your habits.
Spend a little time reflecting on the lessons that your parents taught you. Write down what you think they wanted the most for you. This can be a humbling experience, but a very healthy one. If your life is off-track, then you will probably recognize it with this exercise. The good news is that there is still time to make adjustments!
Developing good habits will transform your life!
Did these tests reveal some work you need to do? Well, don’t fret because none of us are perfect! We all can do better. The good news is that you are no longer living in the dark. You see where you can improve.
Recognizing and admitting our faults is a huge first step. Many would say that you’ve already won 90% of the battle. Now it is time to claim the victory in your life! Start changing your habits and you will realize all the success you’ve ever dreamed of!
What new habits are you going to work on?
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Our habits are really a reflection of our mindset and our culture, two things that propel us forward or hold us back. We can either cultivate good habits or allow ourselves to lay fallow. The choice is all ours to make, and regardless of how we choose, we’ll likely get exactly what we deserve.
Clair
@Clair – Great observations! You are right that our habits reflect our choices. We are in control! We just need to exercise our ability to choose and form good habits that lead to the results we desire!
Hey Jeff,
Our life really is a manifestation of our habits. Tony Robins calls them our rituals and points out that you can identify some of a persons rituals just by observing them. The nice thing about habits is that once we establish good ones, they are easy to maintain. They become habitual.
Read Jonathan – Advanced Life Skills´s latest article – Has your Analytical Mind Taken Over Your Life?
Hi,
Good article, habits are everything, I guess the majority of our lives are spent on auto pilot. A good way I have found to develop good habits is to write down the habit I want to develop on a note card and then carry it with me, every time I feel a bit negative I get it out and repeat it a few time, probably sounds silly but it really works well.
Cody
Read Cody – Dream-Life-Coaching´s latest article – I alienate people
Hello Jeff, I can’t remember the exact number I read but it was something like 90% of our thoughts are habitual thoughts and 98% of our actions are habitual actions. Whatever the case, habits rule our lives. Great post on pointing that out to us and giving us some tools to use to think about those habits.
Read Stephen – Rat Race Trap´s latest article – What You Need to Know About Your Amazing Brain – Part II
This is great – reading articles like this really bolsters my self awareness, which we all need dearly. Thanks!
Read Christopher´s latest article – New York City Public School Kids Sing Coldplay’s "Viva La Vida"
Habits are everything, if you want to be successful then just learn what successful habits are and program them, let success run on auto pilot.