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How Much Money You Have Defines Your Life


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Life takes money.  How much money you have defines the kind of life you lead.  Now I certainly don’t believe that money is the most valuable thing in living a great life, but it sure makes a big difference in a lot of ways.  If you lack money, then you often lack access to many of the better things that life has to offer.  Money doesn’t define who you are, but it certainly defines your circumstances.  We have to fully grasp this concept to live life to the fullest.  We must first accept personal responsibility for our financial well-being in order to improve it.

Money is the root of many good things in our lives.

It seems strange that a need exists to convince people that they need to be more financially responsible, but you don’t have to look far to find someone that has created a personal finance nightmare.  There are three basic components to a sound financial strategy that will ensure you have money to live a nice lifestyle.  They are:

  1. Earn a good income.
  2. Control the money you have.
  3. Make sound investments.

If you are failing in any one of these areas, then you will most likely face some rough financial times ahead.  Maybe you’re already struggling.  The good news is that it isn’t that difficult to get things headed in the right direction.  I’ll share more on that in a minute, but first let’s back up and examine why we should be motivated to be more responsible.

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The ways that money defines your life.

I think it is valuable that we review why money is important to us.  If we aren’t being financially responsible in the three areas listed above, then maybe its because we haven’t stopped to examine what money really buys us.  Maybe we don’t realize the extent to which money defines our life.

1.  Money defines our level of freedom.

The more money that you have the freer you are to live your life the way you desire.  Money opens up a wealth of freedom like travel, leisure, and choice of occupation.  If you aren’t strapped for cash, then you can take time off, go on awesome adventures, and pursue the job of your dreams.  Being financially responsible creates margin in our lives to make our own choices.  These things are possible if you choose to be financially responsible.

2.  Money defines our emotional well-being.

Having a pile of cash gives one a sense of security.  When you have money, you can relax and rest a little easier because you know that you have the resources available to deal with most situations that arise in life.  There is usually less stress in life when you have adequate financial means.  You don’t have to worry as much about things like paying the bills, meeting your kids expectations, and how high gas prices are getting.  Money affords you an easier life.

3.  Money defines our physical well-being.

Many believe that those with more money enjoy better health and live longer.  This could be for any number of reasons.  For instance, with money a person can afford better health insurance and healthcare.  The best doctors are often only available to those with the right kinds of coverage and money to pay for what insurance doesn’t cover.  Also, as discussed above, people with more abundance often suffer from less stress which is a major contributor to all kinds of health issues.

4.  Money defines our power.

It is no secret that money talks.  It often greases the wheels of getting things done.  This is true at the highest level of government down to getting something fixed in your home.  If you have money, it is likely that you are going to get faster, better service from everyone.  Some might think that this isn’t fair and it may not be, but it is reality.  Money gives you power to get your way more often.

5.  Money defines our social life.

Your level of wealth determines where you live and who you associate with.  It is impossible for someone of lower means to hang out much with people of a higher means.  You can’t afford to go to the same places and do the same things.  You can’t live in the same neighborhoods, wear the same clothes, or drive the same cars.  You can’t go to the same restaurants, frequent the same establishments, or go on the same vacations.  Generally, your social network is going to consist mainly of those with about the same financial habits that you have. 

6.  Money defines our wealth.

This may seem obvious, but let me expand the thought for a moment.  Most would agree that, the more money you have the easier it is to get.  It takes money to make money.  If you are a poor earner and bad manager of what you do have, then it isn’t likely you will have any money to invest in ways to build wealth.  This prohibits you from getting your money working for you.  On the other hand, those with money often make more money with little to no physical effort on their part.  They can invest to earn interest and dividends.  They can also hire others to do the labor.  Money breeds money.  You need more to have more.

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Choose to have more money and change your life.

As you can see, poor financial habits may limit you in a number of ways.  It is time to decide to do better.  You want a better life, right?  So, why not get it?  It really is a choice you can make.  You may not think it is possible, but there are many people that would tell you different.  In fact, if you think you can’t get ahead, then I would highly recommend reading Larry Winget’s book titled, You’re Broke Because You Want to Be: How to Stop Getting By and Start Getting Ahead.  This is the book that inspired me to write this article.  It is a quick and easy read that could change your life.

Once you have decided to get more money and get ahead financially, then I would suggest reading the following to get started in the right direction.

7-Day Turnaround- That’s a Wrap - An excellent series of articles on how to change your family’s financial destiny.

Dave Ramsey’s 7 Baby Steps - If you aren’t familiar with Dave Ramsey, then my advice is to read this.  I am about 75% of the way through Baby Step 3.  I am convinced that this is a great methodology to start getting ahead with money.

There’s No Shame In Not Being Able To Afford It - Often our problem with money stems from our ego.  We have to decide that being more successful with money is our top priority.  You should read this to help adjust your attitude.

Borrow, Barter, Buy Used- Espousing The Frugal Lifestyle - Again, it is all about how bad you want it.  If you are serious, then this article will help get you started in cutting back on your lifestyle so you can create margin in your life.

40+ Alternative Income Ideas and Resources - Get busy and earn more money!  Here are a plethora of ideas for how to do so.

Plan Ahead- 6 Steps to Secure Your Financial Future - Successful planning is essential to being wise with your money.  You do have a plan don’t you?

Everyman’s Guide to Increasing Income - Dave Ramsey says,
“Your income is your best wealth building tool.”  In fact, it really is your only wealth building tool.  Forget about winning the lottery and get busy!

25 of the best books about money - Read everything you can get your hands on about be more wise with money.  Here’s an excellent list to get you started.

You CAN Get Out of Debt! - It’s true!  If you don’t believe me, then read this for a second opinion.  Make the decision to be free today.

7 Solid Tips For Living Debt Free - Make a decision to get debt free and then read these tips to help you along the way.

How will money define your life?

Okay, I’ve told you how money defines your life which hopefully has convinced you to earn more and manage it wisely.  I’ve also provided you with an incredible list of reading material that will send you off in the right direction.  All that is left is for you to make the decision that you want to get ahead with money.  What legacy will you leave?

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15 Comments on “How Much Money You Have Defines Your Life”

  1. Tom - StandOutBlogger.com

    You have hit the nail on the head here. I am tired of people telling me that having or wanting to have money is bad. How can you help people if you do not have money to either take the time to help them or use your money to.

  2. Jeff

    @Tom - I agree that money also defines our ability to help others. I appreciate you pointing this out. Like it or not, money is the fuel that charitable organizations use to assist people in need. When we have margin in our lives, we are able to give to worthy causes. This is a big reason that I am being more responisble and intentional with my money.

    Great comment!

  3. B Smith @ Wealth and Wisdom

    I’m so tired of hearing that money is the root of all evil. It is bunk and it is holding back so many people. Money is a tool. Like any tool it’s use defines whether it is good or bad.

    Money may not be able to buy happiness, but lack of money can cause it. It is the progressive realization of worthy goals that makes you happy. Money makes this easier and gives you the freedom to do so.

    Great job defining what money is.

  4. Patrick

    I think you wrote a great article here, and I hope people don’t read it the wrong way. Money doesn’t define who you are or your legacy, but it does to some degree, define what you may be able to do. Like it or not, money is necessary in our society, and the sooner people realize that, the sooner they can use money as a tool to live the life they want to live.

  5. Jeff

    @Patrick - I agree that money doesn’t define who we are inside, but I think our behavior towards money definitely impacts our legacy. I believe this because I think that actions speak louder than words. People in our lives will see how we handle money and follow in our footsteps. The example we set and the precedent we create can certainly influence those coming behind us like our children.

    I see this already in my seven year old. She is very discerning in how she spends her money and she knows we don’t do debt or credit cards. I believe this is a part of the legacy that I am leaving in her life.

    Thanks for your comment!

  6. Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Map

    If money is taken to be a spiritual asset, which it is, then your statement about “money defining our lives” is true. However, most of us take money at face value. And that is the problem. The accumulation of money per se, can solve problems of the exterior but may not necessarily bring inner happiness. It is necessary to also teach this concept to our kids.

  7. Jeff

    @Evelyn - I don’t disagree with you. Money does not buy happiness. There are a ton of rich people that are miserable. However, money does define the circumstances of your life and it can give you the means to do a lot of positive things. I want to have a healthy attitude towards money and teach that to my kids. Of course, I am also teaching them about the value of relationships, spiritual matters, and ethical behavior.

    Thanks for taking the time to add to the discussion!

  8. chris

    Great Information.

    I have one question.

    Why do people seem to gravitate to the guru’s that are “in your face”? Examples, Ramsey and Wingett.

    I’m not saying what they offer is bad. For the most part, quite the contrary.

    But as I clicked on various links and have read various blogs over time, one common theme seems to prevail. People like reading and listening to people who specialize on being in your face.

    I’m not advocating wishy washy books or information. But whatever happened to putting things in kind but common sense terms? Why does it have to be in your face or even to a point rude? (example, I’ve heard Ramsey refer to people who email him with something he disagrees with as twits.)

    My question isn’t so much a criticism of the in your face gurus. Their success can only be achieved when the consumer accepts their methods. In otherwords, they reflect what we are expecting from such books and information.

  9. Duane Ford

    Great article. How true it is that money drastically increased our effectiveness if used correctly.

    I think it was Margaret Thatcher who said “No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he only had good intentions. He had money as well.”

    Duane

  10. Jeff

    @chris - I think people want straight talk. They are tired of the politically correct. Of course, as you have pointed out maybe we have slid back too far the other direction and now overstep common courtesy.

    @Duane - Good deeds do require money. I like the quote from Margaret!

    Thanks for adding your thoughts!

  11. Glblguy

    Good stuff, thanks for the link too!

  12. Ron@TheWisdomJournal

    Thanks for the link Jeff.
    I think money has a way of magnifying who you already are. If you had money problems all your life, suddenly having a lot of it won’t mean that you’re suddenly able to live within your means. That’s why you see so many lottery winners lose it all. On the other hand, if you’ve been disciplined with your money, suddenly coming in to a lot of it doesn’t mean that you are suddenly going to become a spendthrift either!

    Who we are is who we really are inside. Money just brings it out. It’s like the hand that squeezes a tube of toothpaste. Whatever is already in the tube is coming out! (hopefully it’s minty fresh)

  13. Jeff

    @Glblguy - I thought the story on your site was very relevant. I appreciate that you posted it for me to use!

    @Ron - I agree that being successful with money has everything to do with having the right attitude and behavior towards it. I also believe that it is possible for people with poor financial habits to change. Unfortunately, it usually isn’t good fortune like winning the lottery that brings about this change. Instead, it is usually painful circumstances like bankruptcy or foreclosure. My point in this article is that if you aren’t happy with your life, then change it by changing the way you think about money.

  14. Four Pillars

    Great post and thanks for the link.

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