Comments on: Introvert vs Extrovert: The Astonishing Truth

By: Jeremy

Jeremy — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 19:38:52 +0000

Introverted does not mean anti-social or especially mean that we dislike people. In fact, some of the most caring people are introverted but they need alone time to recoup lost energy. Great article!

By: Gabriel

Gabriel — Tue, 26 Oct 2010 22:32:32 +0000

I know it does seem like the introverts are a minority on the surface, but the truth is a lot these social people you see out partying are introverts who know how to be social have a good time. .-= Gabriel´s last blog ..Building Up Your Social Network and Connections =-.

By: shockerz

shockerz — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 08:16:48 +0000

I discovered that I’m an introvert when I try the Myers Brigg test last year. All this time I don’t understand why I don’t like small talks, being drained by parties, but felt in control and energize when alone is too clearly lay upon me that I have an introverted personality.

Great points that you have presented above on the matter and I definitely learn a little bit of ‘myself’ today. Thank you.

By: buntyboy

buntyboy — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 13:11:41 +0000

hey come on man give me a break wat u feel is wrong wat we actually are the fact and it is impossible to change becoz change is inevitable so wat i conclude is both are very much essential to maintain a balance as they do have there own skills of survival which they do feel good

By: Donna Marie

Donna Marie — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 04:42:48 +0000

I’m one of them- an extrovert! , & yes married to an introvert, for 11 yrs. We’re both big talkers, but I’m the grower, the healer – a Pisces. He’s an Aries – very artistic & creative, but only talks surface, facts, news… his ADD contributes. Anyway, we get along in many ways & we both need our space & time alone. I go to MeetUp, Alanon & dinners, without him – & we both like it that way.

I’ve been teaching my clients about this difference & it has helped them a lot. They didn’t know there’s a huge diff. between being an I. & having low self-esteem, which is what they thought it meant.

My site has 90 pgs of great info for ACoAs & my blog is at http://healandgrowforacoas.blogspot.com

I’ve looked at your site in the past, & glad to run into it again.
Thanks for your writing. Look forward to more.

By: Paula

Paula — Fri, 16 Apr 2010 19:00:17 +0000

Great article – I started doing some reading on this subject after I took a personality test which indicated that I am an introvert with extroverted tendencies. I didn’t find that helpful at all, at the time. The more I read though, the more I understand how I got those results. I can be very extroverted, but in short bursts – sometimes not enough to get me through an entire party or family gathering. I love a good Sunday at home alone, writing, gardening, or just sitting out on the porch with a good book.

I sometimes long for a good cookout or party and will plan things but frequently find myself wishing about half way through that everyone would just go home already!

I have started to get a better handle on why I am that way though, and realize that keeping it smaller is better for me. I recognize that my introverted tendencies will surface at some point during the event, and it’s okay.

I’m going to pick up some of the recommended books, too!

By: Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com

Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com — Thu, 15 Apr 2010 14:52:37 +0000

I'm still definitely an introvert but am gaining a much better balance. I don't think we're born on either side, we just lean and get conditioned to think that. .-= Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com´s last blog ..Tabata Intervals : Day 30 (Post Mortem) =-.

By: Jeff

Jeff — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 15:54:11 +0000

Maya – I think you are probably right about the visibility of extroverts vs introverts. Extroverts definitely stand out more than we do, but that’s okay. We are behind the scenes doing great things!

By: Maya

Maya — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 05:55:36 +0000

Great post! I have always known that I am an introvert and am really glad to see validation for the way I describe the difference. Even though I am very happy the way I am, I always have to fight the feelings of regret for not being the fun and outgoing ideal that is portrayed in movies and TV.

Also, I think I have an idea why it seems that there are more extroverts than introverts. It’s because they are the ones that we see, they catch our attention and stick in our memory. We don’t notice all of the people who stayed home that night and cuddled up with a good book.
.-= Maya´s last blog ..From a No ‘Poo Inspiration =-.

By: Jeff

Jeff — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 16:46:04 +0000

Jersey Mom – You have the right attitude about being an introvert. I hope this article helps more people embrace their natural tendency like you have.

Unfortunately, our society often makes introverts feel like something is wrong with them. I think a lot of us grow up feeling we must be shy, insecure or anti-social because of these “norms” in our culture.

I’m with you on small talk. I’m not good at it because I’ve never valued it. We only get good at things we value. Introverts like intense and meaningful conversations and that’s 100% okay.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts about introversion!